Many perons get married with the expectation that the honeymoon would last forever. They are therefore sadly disappointed when they come frace to face with the grim reality that this is not the case. All too quickly they are bombarded with the realization that marriage is lived out in a real world where difficulties and problems exist.
Marriges do not succeed by chance. A good or successful marriage is the direct product of hard work. If both individuals so joined are not committed to the task, it is inevitable that the marriage will become a torture and without godly instruction will end in heartbreak and misery. So, how do we save our marrriages? While I do not set myself up as an authority on such matters, here are a few tips that should be useful.
- Invite God to be an honoured guest in your home - listen intently to His adviee then act on it.
- Show appreciation for your spouse - use words and not just actions to express your appreciation
- Spend quality time together- don't be too busy to have fun together
- Be committed to your marriage
- Be understanding and supportive of your spouse.
- Take time to communicate effectively- LISTEN WELL- your spouse wants to be heard too
- Your spouse needs sexual fulfilment. Never ignore this need.
Conflicts will occur from time to time. Have a positive appproach to resolving them. Let love and good sense prevail at all times. May your marriages be long and enduring.
I really hope that these tips will be found useful. Love you all.
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